Can A Mediation Solicitor Help Me?

In this blog from the legal experts at Wayman & Long, we explore how and why Mediation can be beneficial when going through a divorce or separation. We also highlight why a specialist solicitor may be a smart alternative or additional option.

What Is A Mediator?

If you are going through a divorce or separation, and are struggling to agree on terms relating to anything from child arrangements to the separation of assets and finances, a Mediator may be able to help.

A Mediator is someone specifically trained in helping two people settle their differences during a divorce or separation. They will act as a neutral third party to help you and your ex reach an agreement and start to move forward.

A Mediator will create a calm environment and allow each party the opportunity to talk in an entirely confidential setting. They will then offer practical advice and tips on how to move forward with the separation/divorce. If you and your ex have children, the Mediator will always act in the best interest of the children.

Do I Need A Mediator?

If you and your ex can settle on an amicable agreement in regards to child arrangements and any joint finances, assets, or properties, you may not need the support of a Mediator.

Instead, to take the next steps in the separation or divorce, you may benefit from the support of an experienced solicitor who specialises in separation, divorce and family law.

After all, a Mediator cannot give legal advice, financial advice or act in your personal best interest. They must instead serve as an entirely neutral third party.

In some cases, people utilise the services of a Mediator before reaching out to a solicitor. However, sometimes, mediation with the help of a Mediator expert doesn’t work. If this is the case, you will need to reach out to a Divorce/Separation Solicitor to help you take the next steps.

In other cases, some couples choose a solicitor’s firm that offers both. For example, at Wayman & Long, our team of legal experts includes skilled Solicitors who specialise in divorce, separation and family law, as well as experienced Mediators.

Choosing The Right Mediator or Solicitor

When choosing a Mediator, Solicitor or firm that offers both, there are various factors you should consider and several questions you should ask….

• Are they experienced? Do they come highly recommended, and do they have readily available client reviews to back up their offerings?
• Are they transparent? Are they happy to discuss fees and prices upfront? Are they open about how long the process may take?
• Are they skilled at communication? Will they offer face to face meetings? Will they keep you updated on the legal processes as and when they are happening? Will they be readily available if you have a query?
• Do they offer additional services? When separating from a spouse, many people end up selling property or need advice on other aspects, such as child custody or financial management. By choosing a solicitor’s firm that offers various legal services, including Property Law, you will be backed by a team of experienced law experts who can help you every step of the way.

Get In Touch With Wayman & Long Solicitors

Wayman & Long is a long-standing solicitors’ firm located in Suffolk. We have two high street branches and have served the people of Suffolk and the surrounding areas since 1840!

Today, our experienced team of Solicitors can expertly and compassionately guide you through a wide range of legal matters, including separation, divorce and family law. We pride ourselves on consistency, transparency and an excellent all-around service.

Want to know more about how we can help you mediate with your ex-spouse? Or need advice on taking the next steps in separation and divorce? Don’t hesitate to get in touch with our friendly team today. You can book a consultation by calling us on 01787 277375, emailing us at enquiries@waymanandlong.co.uk, or filling out our online contact form.